Courtship' is a tricky-subject-- because, there's good-and-bad everywhere; why would the courts be any different. Jails have turned into dumping-grounds: employ the prisoners, don't incarcerate. If biology has taught us anything-- it's that humans are a landlock-species. 99% of the population, lives on 1% of the land-- no wonder humanity doesn't get-along.
Now, to speculate-- one is drawing a conclusion, about circumstance. Who doesn't go threw rough-patches, the ups-and-downs; constantly keeping track, to no prevail. The system is rigged to keep the man down-- no fault of your own. Keep truckin' away, hoping the next path-- will lead to a better end.
Humility is a great-quality to have, it's better than being' some loud-mouth-asshole. Talk is cheap, a ploy to minimize the moment--- by downplaying everything and everybody. Wicked-people stabbing their fellow-man in the back-- to get some sick-thrill.