A bird in the hand, is worth two in the bush-- in other words, why pursue something that will never materialize? Marriages are day-to-day-- one minute your in love that person, and the next minute you hate 'em. The common-denominator being: why not give someone else a chance? Is it financial-security, the reason you are with that person; if that's the case-- it won't last, anyway. Love defies all boundaries, and sometimes we don't choose who we end up with!